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Playing the Infinite Game: How to Win Beyond the Scoreboard

In sport – just like in life – it’s easy to get caught chasing wins.

The goals, the scores, the medals, the stats. That’s what Simon Sinek calls The Finite Game – a game with winners and losers, a defined beginning and end, clear rules, and one purpose: to win.

But there’s another game being played, whether you see it or not. It’s The Infinite Game – and it’s the one that really matters.

The Infinite Game isn’t about beating someone else.
It’s about becoming someone better.

It’s the early morning practices, the friendships forged on the field, the resilience built after a tough loss, and the lifelong lessons learned through movement, effort, and play.

Whether you’re chasing a new personal best, mentoring a young athlete, or just trying something new, ask yourself:

Am I only playing to win today…or am I playing to grow for life?

How to Play the Infinite Game in Sport

Train with purpose, not just pressure.
Stretch. Recover. Fuel your body well. Build strength not just to win today, but to keep playing tomorrow.

Reframe failure.
A missed shot isn’t the end – it’s feedback. Every “mistake” is a message if you’re willing to listen.

Compete with character.
Play fair. Lift others up. Whether you win or lose, your integrity is what people remember.

Stay playful.
Don’t let the scoreboard steal the joy. Sport is meant to be fun. Laughter is part of the game.

I’ve spent the last 20+ years playing frisbee at the highest levels – setting world records, touring schools, teaching kids and adults alike. And every time I step on the field, I remind myself:

This moment matters, but it’s not the whole story.

It’s just one throw in the bigger game.

Want to Level Up in Sport – and in Life?
Whether you’re new to frisbee, looking to reconnect with your body, or wanting to build more confidence through play, I offer:

  • 1-on-1 coaching
  • Family and group sessions
  • School, community, and team workshops

Let’s train your skills, strengthen your mindset, and reconnect with the why behind what you do.

Contact Me to learn more.

Your win today is temporary.
Who you become through it? That’s Infinite.